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Friday, July 20, 2007

Pondering Grief

Last week our dear friends lost their 2 year old daughter to cancer. It was incredibly sad and devastating. And, has left me with many questions. Right now I am wondering about grief.

I would like to hear people's views/ideas/theories about the grieving process. All of my college psych classes seem irrelevant now that I have walked with a friend through the death of a child. Book knowledge will definitely take second place to experience with grief, in my humble opinion.

One thing that I have become painfully aware of is that we as Americans are a little too quick and easy with the "life must go on" motto. I kind of feel like so many people grieved for one or two days with our friends as they buried their baby and then they just got back to the stuff of life. Is this a modern phenomenon? How did we grieve 100 years ago? Is it cultural? How do Mexican people do it? German? Latvian? Jewish? Muslim? Buddhist? Is there a right or wrong way to grieve????

 Now, I am not trying to be judgemental and not trying to insinuate that we have done a perfect job of grieving with them, I just feel like there needs to be a pause, a sober pause in the order of the everyday lives of those close to grieving people.

But, here comes the next quandary. How far does the support system for the grieving people extend? Is just immediate family? Close friends? Church community?

Questions, questions, questions. I would just like to hear what others think or what they have experienced in their own family cultures.


Monday, May 21, 2007

Currently Listening
The Reminder
By Feist
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Thomas-Palooza

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Aksel turned 2 this weekend. We had one very happy, Thomas-obsessed boy on our hands.

Time flies.

 


Wednesday, February 28, 2007

Currently Listening
Rootless Trees
By Damien Rice
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New Favorite Quote

I am currently reading Plowing in Hope:Toward a Biblical Theology of Culture by David Bruce Hegeman. And, for this recovering charasmatic evangelical, each page is somewhat mind-blowing. He included this quote which I find quite superb! And, I think our little First Friday crowd will enjoy (Warhol, anybody?):

 

Art, like morality, consists in drawing the line somewhere.

-G.K. Chesterton

 

~Les


Thursday, February 15, 2007

Egg Dishes (For Grace!)

Crab and Cream Cheese Baked Eggs

Recipe form Perfect Entertaining

9 eggs

1/2 cup milk

8 oz. cubed cream cheese

6 ounces lump crabmeat (cartilage removed)

Salt

Freshly ground black pepper

1/4 cup melted butter

1 tablspoon chopped fresh dill

 

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Beat the eggs and milk together in large bowl until light and fluffy. Fold in the cream cheese, crab and salt&pepper to taste. Grease a 7 x 11 glass pan ( or 2 quart casserole dish) with the melted butter. Pour egg mixture into the pan. Sprinkle the dill over top. Bake for 30 minutes. Serve hot.  Makes 8 servings.

 

Savory Clafouti with Ham, Mushrooms and Chives

Recipe from Fine Cooking Oct/Nov 2004

Filling:

1 Tbs. vegetable oil

1 Tbs. unsalted butter

1/2 pound white button mushrooms cleaned and quartered.

Kosher salt

6 ounces ham, sliced 1/8 in thick and cut into 1 1/2 x 1/2 inch strips

Freshly gound pepper

 

Cheese:

2 ounces Gruyere, grated to yield 1/2 cup

Herb:

2 tablespoons snipped chives

Heat oil and beutter in a 10-inch skillet over med-high heat. When butter has melted, ad mushrooms, sprinkle with salt, and cook, stirring occasionally, until softened and browned slightly, about 8 minutes. If the mushrooms release a lot of water, increase the heat to evaporate. Toss in the ham and cook, stirring frequently, until browned a bit, 2-3 minutes. Remove from the heat, season with a little salt and pepper, and set aside to cool. Have Cheese and Chives ready.

 Master Clafouti Recipe:

1/4 cup cornstarch

1 1/4 cup whole milk

2 large eggs

2 large egg yolks

1 cup heavy cream

1/2 tsp kosher salt

Pinch Cayenne

Butter or oil for pan.

1) Have prepared filling (above) ready. Position rack in top third of oven and preheat to 425 degrees.

2) Mix the Clafouti batter: Put the cornstarch in a medium bowl. Whisking steadily, slowly pout in the 1/2 cup of the milk, mixing until quite smooth. Whisk in the whole eggs and egg yolks, mixing again until smooth, and then gradually whisk in the rest of the milk., the cream, the salt and cayenne. Use immediately or refrigerate, covered, for up to a day.

3) Arrange the filling: Butter or oil a 2-quart, 7x 11 inch Pyrex dish or an 8x 11 ceramic gratin dish. Spread the filling over the bottom of the pan . Scatter cheese and herbs.

4) Pour batter: Whisk the batter in case it has settled and then pout it over the filling. Bake until the top is deep golden and the custard is set (softly set is neither liquid or firm) 25- 30 minutes. Let stand for 30  minutes before serving.

 

 

Good luck with these. I think that they are pretty simple and very delcious!


Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Fun Snowed-In Valentine's Day

100_4415 100_4420100_4400 100_4427 Yeah for snow days! Yeah for Dad's cool boss who called at 7 am and told him not to come in today! Yeah for heart-shaped waffles for breakfast! Yeah for Valentine's Day!



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